Friendship is one of those things in life that can shape who you are. My Mum used to tell me, “Sipho, choose your friends wisely, they are who you become”, meaning the people that we call our friends, the ones we allow to speak into our lives, can have a negative or positive impact on our lives. I have gone through various seasons in life, and as the seasons have changed, some friends have remained the same and other friendship dynamics have changed. Most of my friends are